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You Had Me At Hell No dissects the toxic tropes and ridiculous relationship models of some of the most beloved rom-coms.
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The fictionalized plot of the film is a tale as old as time: A small town girl leaves home to chase her dream in the Big City. Here, it's guileless Violet (Piper Perabo) who leaves her sweet lug of a dad Bill (John Goodman) in New Jersey, to head a whole hour away to New York City, where she braves the chaotic, dangerous metropolis to fulfill her lifelong ambition of becoming a professional songwriter—if she can overcome her debilitating stage fright! Of course, there's a cute guy: the boyish Australian line cook Kevin (Adam Garcia), who pushes her to reach for the stars. But to survive in Manhattan, broke-as-hell Violet has to bartend at a raucous dive bar called Coyote Ugly. This requires a hoochie Western makeover montage (cowboy boots and bedazzled crop tops that say "Oklahoma" in rhinestones? Yes, bitch!) and shaking what the white people of South Amboy gave her while dancing on the bar to Don Henley records for a bunch of drunks. Innocent Violet's transformation into an "empowered" "bad girl"—to the chagrin of her disappointed dad and boyfriend—helps her realize that she has the chops to make it in the music industry. It all hits a happy crescendo when Violet overcomes her fears and performs her song "Can't Fight the Moonlight" at the famed Bowery Ballroom. And of course, when Violet achieves musical success, she and Kevin kiss.Directed by David McNally and written by Gina Wendkos (The Princess Diaries, The Perfect Man) and Todd Graff ( Camp, Joyful Noise), Coyote Ugly was catnip for a teen like me, dreaming of the moment I could leave my hometown and do big things with my life. I blame Coyote Ugly for a rash of girls at my high school suddenly heading to homeroom in cowboy boots, super low-rise boot cut jeans, and embellished crop tops, (also coinciding with Madonna's cowgirl reinvention in her music video for "Don't Tell Me" that same year) . As a culture, we were unknowingly preparing for the brash patriotism of a post-9/11 world.
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Kevin is a sly rom-com love interest in his insidiousness. He's incredibly supportive of Violet's songwriting career, and initially finds it enticing that she works as a "coyote." Violet's a lady in the streets and a freak on the bar—a Madonna and whore in one. Sweet! That impression doesn't last long, though. He becomes frustrated by Violet relying too much on Coyote Ugly as a safe space that keeps her from leaving her comfort zone and performing as a singer—or so he says. When he gives away his prized possession (a rare copy of The Amazing Spider-Man issue #129—LOL) to get her a slot on an important songwriter's showcase and she doesn't show up because of work, Kevin comes to Coyote Ugly and punches a customer he perceives as getting too close to Violet. "They don't come to watch you sing. They come to watch girls shake it on a bar," he screams at her after he gets kicked out. Kevin implies that Violet has no dignity, and tells her she should "just unbutton the blouse a little, and unzip the pants, show a little flesh—I think you can figure it out," when she pushes back. The fight gets her fired.
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Career girls on screen generally get punished for being too ambitious, once it becomes detrimental to their romantic relationships. For other examples, look no further than Reese Witherspoon's fashion designer Melanie in Sweet Home Alabama, Anne Hathaway's editorial assistant Andy in The Devil Wears Prada, or Sanaa Lathan's perfectionist accountant Kenya in Something New. But Violet finds support for her goals within her circle. In the end, it's not her winning Kevin's heart that makes us all cheer; it's that she made her dreams come true on her own terms. But because this is a romantic comedy, it's sold as her getting it all—the career and the guy. The road, however, is marked with ugly misogynist tropes. Kevin sucks. Violet should have let him and his little comic book kick rocks and celebrated her triumph by getting doused in Jack Daniels by all her hot friends while Detroit-based rap-rock plays.Coyote Ugly can be streamed on Amazon Prime.Alex Zaragoza is the senior culture writer at VICE.com. She has been unsuccessful in fighting the moonlight.